Passing On The Tradition

As I write this post, Passover has just started. As you read it, we’re in the May graduation season. There’s an interesting connection. When I was young, I attended Wilshire Blvd Temple, and they had a tradition in those days of giving a seder plate to graduates of their high school program. I received one from them, and it prompted me to do my own seder throughout my college years and to this very day (including developing my own haggadah). Last year, MoTAS brought this tradition to TAS, using a portion of the NCAA Squares Grants to provide seder plates to the graduates of TAS High. We continue that tradition this year, in hopes that they will inspire our TAS young adults to invite their friends and hold seders at college (if they don’t come home). It’s a powerful tradition.

Providing a seder plate is just one way that MoTAS provides fatherly leadership to members of our congregation. We also participate in the FJMC Yellow Candles program, providing yellow Yom HaShoah candles to any congregant. The goal is to encourage remembrance of the Holocaust at home; through remembering, we hope to remind and sensitize people to the antisemitism that remains today.

We encourage all of the fathers out there — and those who serve as father-figures, whatever your gender — to keep the remembrances alive. Tell the stories. Explain the meanings. Show these stories we tell have messages for today, and aren’t just dusty rituals. By doing so, we can do our small part to make this world better.

MoTAS Weekly for 4/20/16: Membership Meeting – May 1 – Panama Speaker – Elections

MoTAS Weekly for 4/13/16: Pick Up Yellow Candles | MoTAS Logowear | 2016-2017 MoTAS Officer Candidates

MoTAS Weekly for 4/6/16: Candle Packing 4/10 | MoTAS Seder 4/17 | Last Weeks of Kitchen Challenge

MoTAS Weekly for 3/30/16: Closet Move 4/3 | Candle Packing 4/10 | MoTAS Seder 4/17 | & more

MoTAS Weekly for 3/23/16: Kitchen Challenge | MoTAS Seder 4/17 | Candle Packing 4/10 | & more

Fathers and Sons

As I write this post/article, I have just received word that Scott Yollis’ father passed away. He’s not alone: in March, other men in the congregation have lost fathers or fathers-in-law, including Mike Doner and Rabbi Lutz. It is also just after my father’s birthday; he passed away in 2004. Fathers play important roles in our lives: they pass down values, they serve as examples, they teach us how to lead. Our congregation is blessed with many active fathers, including the men of MoTAS and the fathers in our religious school.

One problem we have, however, is a generational divide between the fathers in the congregation. Although we all share the same goal — leadership in our family and leadership for the congregation — we feel we have little in common. The older dads form the core constituency of MoTAS. The younger dads are involved in the ECEC and activities like “Dad’s Night Out”. When we should be cross-pollinating our similar experiences, we separate and think we have little in common.

MoTAS would like to change that. First, we invite the younger dads to come to our Sunday morning meetings (timed to be during religious school), our MoTAS Seder, and our upcoming outing to see the Lancaster Jethawks — affordable, family-friendly baseball. We also want to work with the dad’s group in the ECEC — providing umbrella publicity, and working together to promote fund raisers for our groups and the congregation. If this is something you would like to help with, please contact me at president@tasnorthridge-motas.org .

 

MoTAS Weekly for 3/16/16: NCAA Basketball Squares on Sale / Kitchen Challenge Continues / And More…

MoTAS Weekly for 3/9/16: Purim Carnival *and* Mens Hangout with the Rabbi THIS WEEKEND

MoTAS Weekly for 3/2/16: Rosalyn Kahn on Reducing Stress / Hangout with the Rabbi